Find Strength at the Table
Grow in Sisterhood & Nourish Your Calling...

Who We Are
We are the wives and widows of priests and deacons serving in the Orthodox Church in America. We said yes to our husbands’ calling to priestly ministry. We love our husbands, and we love the Church. We are not naturally strong, but have become strong through God’s love. We know that in our weakness, Christ’s strength sustains us. As sisters, we strive to always make space for one another, as the Mother of God has done for us.

What We Do
We set a table of abundance, offering each sister a place to gather, connect, and be nourished for her unique calling in Christ. Specifically, we…
- Pray for clergy wives, widows & the people they hold in their hearts
- Offer in-person retreats & meet-ups
- Foster solidarity through shared reading, online forums & guided conversations
- Generate dialogue with our bishops for the building up of the Church
- Share resources for stronger financial, spiritual, and mental health
- Provide opportunities for personal connection & fellowship

Get Involved
Your generosity helps sustain the work of the Clergy Wives Ministry. It is due to the faithful stewardship of time and finances of people like you that we are able to offer gatherings, resources, and meaningful support for clergy wives and widows across the Church. Every gift helps strengthen this ministry of fellowship, encouragement, and care.
We are seeking donations and volunteers. Click below to learn more about specific opportunities to help us take care of the women who take care of the Church.
Mission
The mission of the Clergy Wives Ministry is to gather, nurture, and care for the wives and widows of the clergy throughout North America, that each woman—who so often pours herself out in service to others—may herself be known, strengthened, and upheld in her own vocation. Rooted in the life of the Church and sustained by prayer, we seek to walk alongside one another in love, bearing one another’s burdens and rejoicing in one another’s joys.

Come Away and Rest
If something in you longs for even a small space of quiet…
for fellowship that does not require explanation…
for the rest our Lord asks us to observe…
We warmly invite you to join us for our inaugural in-person retreat for clergy wives and widows for three days of:
- Prayer and quiet
- Honest fellowship
- Time to rest
- Spiritual encouragement
- Renewed strength for ministry life

One Book. One Sisterhood.
One Book. One Sisterhood. is a ministry of connection, formation, and fellowship for clergy wives and widows. Through shared reading and guided conversation, this program promises to build community as we engage in activities around the themes it presents throughout the year.
Our first book of this new program is: The Joy to Serve by Matushka Juliana Schmemann. This encouraging read by one of our own is down to earth and quick to read. It promises to help us find joy in everyday ministry challenges and vivify our walk with Christ.
Order The Joy to Serve from from SVS Press with code OneSisterhood at checkout for a $3 discount.
For our Canadian sisters, order The Joy to Serve from Alexander Press and request the OneSisterhood 30% discount when you receive your invoice through email.
Meet the Director
For over 20 years, I have walked as a clergy wife—making space for my husband to minister, raising our four sons, and underwriting much of his work through my own income. In that time, I have known both the deep joy and the real exhaustion that come with this calling. When I was just four years into ministry, I found myself facing the need for open-heart surgery. If I had not already been connected to other clergy wives, I do not know how we would have weathered that storm.
When my husband and I were leaving seminary, a group of about eight friends—sisters whose husbands were also students at Saint Vladimir’s Seminary in New York—decided we would stay connected. Eventually, we began gathering in person. It was so life-giving to walk side by side in our journeys that we continue to this day. During the ten days leading up to my surgery, these sisters called me, connected me with physician friends, and even set up a GoFundMe so that the unexpected cost would not become a burden. One dear friend came and stayed with my family for over a week, caring for my children while my husband helped me recover. Without them, I do not believe I would have survived one of the hardest trials of my life. That sisterhood, that lifeline, is what I desire for all clergy wives.
Along with my lived experience, the Lord has prepared me for this role through my professional background. Years in design, disability care, client relations, and event planning have equipped me to design programs, galvanize connections, and create inclusive spaces where clergy wives and widows feel welcomed and nurtured. After recovering from burnout, I am more passionate than ever to help other sisters find balance and lasting strength. My vision is a place where every sister not only survives but thrives—offering her gifts so we build a Church sustained by God’s grace, beauty, and love.
I invite you to explore this website, and I hope you will find it informative, encouraging, and nourishing. Come back often as we add more courses to this table in the wilderness—a place where, like Christ and His disciples, we gather, are fed, and grow in strength, knowing that together we sustain one another for the work of the Kingdom.
Mka. Carrie Foley
Support, Connection & Care
Explore the ways our ministry helps foster connection, invites participation, and offers prayerful support to clergy wives and widows.

We Would Love to Include You
We are working to strengthen connections among clergy wives and widows across the Church so women can more easily find friendship, encouragement, and opportunities for nourishment. Unfortunately, we have personal contact information for only about half of the clergy wives across the Church. Because of that, many women never receive practical support, invitations to gatherings, retreats, or other opportunities meant specifically for them. We would love to include you! Add yourself to the clergy wives directory below.

Future Volunteer Roles
Has God been calling you to serve the clergy wives in His Church with the gifts He’s placed in you? We are seeking dedicated clergy wife and widow volunteers for a two-year commitment in the Clergy Wives Ministry. Whether you have a heart for event planning, communications, or other vital roles—like writing, praying, photography, choir directing, small group facilitation, and more—we need you. Click the form below to see all the opportunities and find out how you can become part of the work we are doing.

Prayer Request
Do you have a prayer request you would like to share with us in confidence? We would be honored to pray with you and for you. Whether you are carrying a personal burden, seeking peace, or asking prayers for a loved one, we welcome the opportunity to hold your needs with care and compassion.

Clergy Widows Outreach
Learn how clergy wives are offering support and meaningful connection to clergy widows through this ministry of remembrance, presence, and care. Through simple acts of encouragement, prayer, and ongoing fellowship, this outreach seeks to gently remind clergy widows that they are seen, remembered, and not alone.
Support This Work
Your gift helps sustain programs, resources, and care for clergy wives, widows, and families across the Church.
